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As I remind myself to breathe steadily and to keep my tone pleasant, I realise handling this difficult professional would be important to how I’m perceived by the rest of the group \u2014 a set comprising 85+ executives in a packed lecture room. I would also be required to have one-on-one coaching sessions with them at a later date.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Knowing what is at stake, I approach Ms X. Stopping a respectable distance from her seat, I wait for a few seconds after she stops talking and ask in an even tone:<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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I also came to accept the fact that her personality was hers alone. I reckoned that she needed solid interpersonal skills and <\/span>emotional intelligence<\/span><\/a> to <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span>influence positive outcomes. But it wasn’t my job to change her character. <\/span><\/span><\/span>Nonetheless, I did wonder how far she’d go in her career if she continued to be abrasive, curt or disagreeable. <\/span>That was when I decided to ‘insulate’ myself against her anticipated criticisms. <\/span><\/div>\n
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Some months later, <\/span>she interrupted me to complain that I had changed the details of a question I asked all participants to answer. I wasn’t offended. In fact, I acknowledged that I had<\/i>\u00a0<\/span>added some complexity to the scenario for more engaging discussions. I made no apologies for doing so.<\/span><\/div>\n
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In another session, she grumbled about not having the time to read the question distributed before the exam. In response, I handed her a printed copy of the question. Later, she whined about how she didn\u2019t know what to do. I simply smiled. She finally settled down to write the exam. Ironically, she scored the second-highest grade in that assessment.<\/span><\/span><\/span>
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1) “<\/b>Seek first to understand, then to be understood<\/i>“<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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As a speaker, coach, presenter, leader or in whatever role you find yourself,\u00a0 prepare for a sharp disagreement with your client or a member of the audience before any event.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Some disagreements might not be civil. In fact, you might perceive them as personal attacks. <\/span><\/span>Resist the instinct to defend yourself. <\/span><\/div>\n
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First, listen to what isn’t <\/i>being said. <\/span>Behind that rude statement, grating voice or infuriating whining lies exasperation. <\/span>The offender <\/span>challenges you at every turn because he\/she either doesn’t understand the concept, or he\/she requires more convincing. There may also be myriad reasons for being difficult that you’re not privy to. <\/span><\/div>\n
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Next, ask the most straightforward question to understand what the other party wants to know. You won’t solve the problem until you attempt to address the offender’s concerns. Charm won’t do it, nor will some battle of wits.<\/span><\/div>\n
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